Have to say, I am old, will take an interest in-law relations issues; will also be asked questions concerning the Relationship between Mother.
Ago, the answer to a magazine on the "-law" relationship questionnaire, also took this view his-law relationship: I am really lucky to have these things never worry, her mother have their own hobbies, life, everything open-minded , and never to meddle in our anything more than I do as best mother happy things, like more than to see them with a carat. So-law relationship has never involved my energy, so I have been happy in family life, this is my lucky.
So the answer to the questionnaire, the basic theoretical answer, do not know real life Zhong is not really hard to achieve them, but if can really do, I think it would be headache-law relationship, are you?
Her mother came home, what will?
- freedom from institutional life, the law of
Her mother came, life becomes particularly regular, institutionalized and can not be undisciplined life. Such as punctuality three meals a day, and eat a very decent meal, not as live as their own, sometimes only eat two meals a day, or a sandwich can be considered a meal. After her mother came home, must be fixed dinner, and this must be dirty, well-established, there is soup, but also pay attention to the habit of caring for the elderly.
Life institutionalized, rule-based result is a sense of feel that life has been bound, and ceded a lot of thought to use at home, on how to arrange meals for example, ah, when the elderly out how to arrange ah, but also taking into account not Let mother feel bored, spend some time with her. Therefore, the day her mother at home, will feel particularly tired, haha.
Domestic-law of war is most likely to lead to something, when conflicts occur, how would you deal with?
- "mouth of a real set of"
I think that once a conflict with her mother, in general, use the "mouth of a real set of" basic contradiction can be resolved.
If the mother indicates that he did wrong, first of all to live in their mouth closed, do not explain, do not complain, can not talk back, argue, but nothing happens not to shut the mouth nod to criticism, to say the elderly a few calculations. Very often, it is not the same as to full compliance with the instructions of her mother to do, as a junior, daughter of the mother's opinion would nod for her mother with a sense of dignity as the parents enough. Even if the next bent still not done by her mother says, was her mother discovered the error as long as Xipixiaolian admit admit that change next time, you can again and again and again to uphold their own practices.
Even if it can not get away, as long as not done that yourself too hard, too can not accept things, nothing is "done immediately backboard rice meal and not so painted," such a thing, meaning according grandmother do just fine.
If the mother interfering in your private life, how would you do?
- to join her husband helped cover up her mother
Since it is private life, it should avoid the mother Caidui Yeah, do not let her mother know that will not happen to be interference in the matter anymore. And this matter, such as Mr. and full communication and to be consistent, so will understand, is interfering in the private-law lost life, your privacy will be strongly influenced by the quality of life, and he will stand in your position and support you in private life secret to her mother, the family also does not appear contradictory.
For example, if your mother revenue of interference, then first you have to make clear in private by-law, Mr. and interference effects of household spending, if the President does not understand, then OK, you strictly bind themselves one month, absolutely not spending money, the money spent on each blade, it touches on the husband to pay a sum of this month's record, and a tie to him, let him know, if this account is her mother knew the consequences would be like. So, how could he not help her mother do you hide together.
In short, to avoid interfering in your private life, her mother the best way is to do security work!
Mother took a fancy to something you like, how do?
- send her to send her to send her!
Get her! Get her! Get her! Before I wrote an old lady like me the story of a necklace.
Have time to eat-in-law, I was away, mother and father said: fat child stars have a beautiful necklace, a time when you go and find it to buy for me. So father and President said: Your mother said that children have a fat star necklace is very beautiful, what, you look to your mother bought. Mr. told me: Mom said you have very beautiful necklace, so to find my father, my father turned over to me, I arranged for you.
So the next day, I carried all my necklace (hey, get rid of me by far the most favorite of the two), went to her mother, where Q: Which is your favorite ah. And then sort out her mother loved to leave.
We all smile from ear to ear to praise me, I am happy to ear to ear, proud heart unawares. Encountered an easy task because you can get an opportunity like this is how much luck ah.
If your clothes She said too much, too can be expensive, how would you answer?
- to her mother bought two coats, the mouth plug.
Hanging face, nodded and said: "Actually, my clothes are all these great discounts when buying very cheap, but later I will buy less, and indeed at home waiting for a place to spend a lot."
Then, after the mind, not the old home to her mother change clothes, do not look too high to wear clothes, wear normal casual clothes on it. In addition, when seasonal encountered occasionally gave her mother one or two good clothes, mother's mouth can certainly "blocked:, Oh, after you dress her mother would not find it too much.
Ideal-law relationship you what?
- capable and competent subordinate relationship between the boss
I never felt the best natural-law mother-daughter relationship should be like a general, because, after all, not before fifteen or twenty years of parenting and a pregnant woman, the daughter of the mother, they would not be more intimate than his mother, grandmother course of the daughter-in-law did not condone her daughter as a daughter-in-law.
Ideal-law relationship should be like obedient, hard subordinates and understanding, capable of harmonious relations between superiors and mutual respect, mutual support, both know the importance of each other, so very harmonious relationship with each other easily, but also There are circumstances in which personal relationships. But, after all, the relationship between superiors and subordinates, so lower to higher levels with the appropriate awe have Jisi distance, give yourself some room, but also concerns subordinate supervisors, to help correct their behavior, to maintain a reputation, but also given a certain tolerance.
If you can achieve this between-law close Quefei intimate relationship that would be a very harmonious.
What do you get along with the unique skills of teach-law relationship to you?
- and her mother live in small children is very simple wrist
First, production from the United States must maintain courteous relations and her mother, grandmother and mother are different from, and she and her mother there will be conflicts, there is a dispute, there is friction it, let alone, and her mother had. Is rather for us and the general staff are often able to maintain, so too close to a free and easy to say too much, doing some thing inappropriate.
Second, the mouth not suffer disadvantage, so that her mother always right, regardless of mother-right and wrong, have a smile nodded: "Yes, Mom." This is the best solution to family conflicts. Family relations have never absolute right and wrong, if there are problems, only to move people, but no way to reasoning.
Third, the event can be an opportunity to please her mother, time must be spared no effort to please. Remember, when a person when you help, be sure that happy thought: this is a very easy to be like the opportunity, be sure to take good grasp fishes, otherwise missed the opportunity to spend several times, several hundred times the energy to make up, it may not be able to make good use of time that half of small effect.
Jujube peanut pig knuckles
Winter, good appetite, the body also needs more energy, and accumulation of fat can also be hidden in heavy clothes, so you can eat a little bit greasy, yangkeng about. The total of the occasionally, forgive yourself, inclusive yourself:)
Material: pig knuckles, peanuts, red dates
Ingredients: onion, ginger, soy sauce, dark soy sauce, cooking wine, cinnamon, Rou Kou, miso, salt, rock sugar
Steps:
1, peanuts soaked in cold water overnight, washed dates.
2, pig knuckles cold water the pot, add a little ginger, cooking wine, heat it to turn off the heat after, remove pig knuckles, rinse with warm water Diaoxie end; will Rou Kou, cinnamon or other spices you like, wrap gauze in, and then cut some spring onion, ginger.
3, amount of oil into the pot, add spring onion, ginger until fragrant.
4, under the pig knuckles stir, pour in dark soy sauce color.
5, put some wine, rice wine, rice wine, cooking wine can be.
6, add enough water has not been pig knuckles.
7, add peanuts, red dates, spice bag, cover and stew on it, following the fire to boil, turn a small simmer. But I like Coptis together with pig knuckles into the casserole in the stew, it was incense.
8, stewed pig knuckles, when adding some miso will be more Maotai - have a trick, the miso into the sieve, pressing with a spoon containing a little miso broth, miso dissolves. Opened fire after the transfer of small cook for 23 hours or until pig knuckles bad, based on the taste add a little soy sauce seasoning, if necessary, add a little salt on top, and put a little fire accept juice on it. Because of the increase in itself is enough sweet dates, but add a little sugar, is to make soup thick, bright, just add a little rock sugar best.
